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The eulogy in a Catholic mass is just like any other - you don't have to know anything about the ritual or anything. Basically the priest will call you up when it's time - so make sure you sit up front. I'm sure you'll be fine. Take your time, everyone knows it's a difficult task, but I think there is no higher honor than being asked to share with everyone the stories of what made your friendship so special.
The last time I gave a eulogy (my Grandmother's) I told everyone that it was difficult to give this eulogy for two reasons. First (the obvious) I'm sad that she's gone and I'll miss her, and second - because I had too many great stories to choose from when trying to write it. She did so many great things, it was hard to pick just a couple to share with everyone.
I'm sure your friend has done the same thing. Make sure you let everyone know that, and ask each of them to make their eulogy difficult as well. Hopefully they'll be inspired by his memory.
Good luck & take care.
Pat
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